Showing posts with label life lessons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life lessons. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

Following the Foot Prints of LEGEND

A Sons Words



We’ve gleaned so much from Dr. Maya Angelou. She’s been a mentor, mother and guardian angel to the world. But we often forget that she has her own family. At the age of 16, Angelou, born Marguerite Ann Johnson, gave birth to her pride and joy, son Guy Johnson.

During an interview on OWN, Johnson tells Oprah, “I grew up in her light. Sometimes I wasn’t worthy of it, but it has always been an experience that expanded me.

“She thinks that the divine hand is in all things,” he adds. “She has faith that’s like a rock — you can stand on it. She speaks to our humanity and she reminds us that we are both brother and sister to the rest of the human race.

“Keep on speaking, Ma,” Johnson says. “We need the lessons, the beautiful poems, books, movies, dances, celebrations and love.”



The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. Johnson, who completed college in Egypt, is also a writer and poet. After graduation, he managed a bar on Spain’s Costa del Sol, ran a photo-safari service from London through Morocco and Algeria to the Spanish Sahara, and worked on the oil rigs in Kuwait, according to his Random House bio.

Some of his poetry can be found in the anthology of black male poets titled My Brother’s Keeper. Johnson is married, has a son and is a resident of Oakland, California.

-Will T Barlow

Monday, May 19, 2014

Girl POWER!

LIVING LIKE A POEM

On Monday, April 7th I attended a book launch event for one of the greatest writers of our time, Pearl Cleage. Her new masterpiece, “Things I should have told my daughter: Lies, Lessons, and Love Affairs”, is a collection of her past journal entries dating back to the 1970s and 80s. This beautifully compiled work provides a magnified view of what she learned in the years passed. She strategically placed each entry to create a look into the good, the bad, and the ugly in regards to career, relationship, and lifestyle choices. From loves lost to juicy political secrets, Mrs. Cleage reminds readers that within a singular life’s journey are many stories that define the whole person. Creatively Mrs. Cleage defies the norm and equates to mere generous in her unapologetic feminist dialect, fearlessly approaching her craft with honesty.


 

I sat in awe listening to Mrs. Cleage read page after page of shear brilliance. I wrote down a quote from the book that changed my perspective of love and how I live everyday. I found that I don’t always let loose and love freely. It may be hard to believe that one statement could make me reach a philosophical revolution, but the truth is, it’s always more fun living in the moment than planning, closing your eyes and jumping instead of remaining on the ground, and even loving out loud rather than pouring your inner most feelings out silently on paper or in my case in a dance.

 

“Sometimes it’s more fun to be a poem than to write one.” –Pearl Cleage, Things I should have told my daughter: Lies, Lessons, and Love Affairs”

 

 

Things I should have told my daughter: Lies, Lessons, and Love Affairs is a work of art intended for a variation of audience members. Pearl Cleage oozes Girl Power, I’m just here to make everyone else aware of it. Until next time, TOOTLES!

 

Lyrric Cosby Jackson

 

Monday, April 21, 2014

Teachings of life

Life's lessons are to build you up to create and perform you own life's work. 



Actor, Poet, and Former Professional Athlete Omari Latif Hardwick grew up in Decatur, Georgia. His parents gave him a name to set a precedent – “Omari” means “most high,” and “Latif” means “gentle.” “I, in no way, believe that I am the highest or most high, but I feel like my name gives me something to strive for,” says Omari.

Growing up, sports were everything to Hardwick, but he still had a passion for the arts. By the age of 14, Hardwick was writing poetry on a regular basis, a passion he would carry with him into adulthood. In high school, he excelled at basketball, baseball, and went on to play college football. Although a star on the field, Hardwick never gave up his passion for acting, and even minored in theater in college.

“I hugely attribute sports to my success in entertainment business,” says Omari. “Being on the field taught me dedication and discipline. I already came from a strict household when I was growing up, and sports just took that to another level. Whenever I approach a set, I always feel as though the cast, crew, director, are all part of a team. I have always married athletics and art, two huge parts of my life.” After graduating from college, Hardwick relocated to San Diego for a spot on the San Diego Chargers (NFL). However, a knee injury cut his football career short. Despite this setback in his sports career, his acting career continues to shine. Omari has been featured on numerous TV shows, including Saved and Dark Blue. He’s also appeared in several films, including Spike Lee’s Miracle at St. Anna, The A-Team, Kick-Ass and other blockbuster films. Omari currently appears on the hit BET series, Being Mary Jane. He has also written over 4,000 poems and also a strong force in Atlanta metro area schools. 





Having a carefree conversation with Omari via FaceTime I lead up to asking a few more questions for the blog. I let him know immediately that it was strictly for social clarity and understanding of life situations. He then said will you pulled my arm, giver me the questions. I than began to ask, how many auditions did it take to land a role you truly wanted to play. His reply was countless, I had a vision in my mind that my art or work will be purposeful and meaningful in film. What's your favorite food I asked? Hardwick laughed and responded with the statement, "my fav foods are so bad for me" but he finally said baked macaroni. What life lessons can you give to help anyone who would need life guidance on the path of self clarity? 

Omari’s Life Lessons

Teamwork
Life requires a unique brand of teamwork. When you’re a part of a team, understanding your role and trusting your teammates to know their role is critical.

Perseverance
Life provides a variety of challenges that will test (and help to build) your perseverance. You will sometimes lose a battle, and you will sometimes have to deal with situations that will challenge you emotionally, physically and mentally.

Discipline
Life requires the player to discipline themselves and to work hard. There is also a beautiful life lesson in the scrutiny and evaluation process.
 
Author Bj Jackson

Thursday, April 10, 2014

Conversation with an Authentic Author



                      Omar Tyree
                  New York Times
                Best Selling Author
                            by
                     Darrell Reid
 
It’s not every day that you get to talk with one of the greatest authors of our generation. This guy is not only an author but a poet, educator, lecturer and a journalist. He is a New York Times best seller, who has sold over 2 million books worldwide, an NAACP Image Award Winner, a Phyllis Wheatley Literacy Prize Winner and the Founder of the Urban Literacy Project(ULP).



He is the only, and only OMAR TYREE and is as normal as they come. I really mean that.  His enthusiasm and energy made the conversation with him feel like I was hanging out with oneof my good friends at Taco Mac, while watching the game. During the conversation, Mr. Tyree gave me so much information and insight into his world of writing and publishing that I found it impossible to write everything down. Just minutes leading up to our phone conversation I was nervous as hell, and he gave me plenty of time to remain nervous. The conversation started about ten minutes to nine, while originally scheduled for 8pm, while he dealt with a last-minute business call. And as I was watched the time, I kept saying to myself, “I cannot believe in just a few a minutes, I will be interviewing Omar Tyree.” So went through my questions over and over again.  
I had everything outlined and was thinking about how I would approach the questions, all while watching the time like a countdown to the NFL Draft. And as soon as I said, “Yeah, this is Omar Tyree” on the line, I had to keep my fanatic energy on chill mode and ask the man some major questions.

had explained to Mr. Tyree that this particular interview would be featured on my cousin’s blog Bars And Warfare.” Mr. Tyree then informed me that he wasn’t really a big fan of blogs. He stated that it was nothing personal but he found blogs to have shortened articles. He said he was from the old school of extensive articles that could reach 2,000-3,000 words and deep introspection. And he was not satisfied with reading the incomplete meals of short blogs. So he joked with me about the articles and posts being of short content and possibly chopping up his interview into a hundred "Bars and Warfare" blog features.

Our conversation began with how the celebrated author caught the writing bug I the first placeTyree explained that he caught on to the passion of writing in his freshmen year ofcollege at the University of Pittsburgh, where he was actually studying to become a pharmacist, with dreams of walking on to the football team. He then realized that other students were interested in what he wrote, which was amazing to him.  The young author’s eye for detail would unknowingly become the core of his further career. The University of Pittsburgh conselors even advised him to publish "Diary of a Freshman” in a student news letter, all about the details of college life from the eyes of a student in his first year

Those early writings laid the foundation for what was to come. But it wasn’t as a pharmacist. I cannot picture Omar Tyree confined behind a desk, counting prescription medication for patientsWith his excitable personality and entrepreneurial spirit, I could not create a visual image of the dynamic writer tied down to one occupation.  And indeed, people questioned his transition from pharmacy to journalism. As Tyree put it, “There is a scientific method to approaching your writing too.  

When not at speaking engagements or writing new best-sellers, the author says he loves sports and going to movies. He was planning to see the new Captain America film that same weekend as our interview. Tyree also listed Fabulous, Jay-Z and old-school rap artists as his music of choice. He said he loves Jay-Z’s way of reinventing himself professionally and musically.  Tyree even released his own rap and spoken wordalbum, Rising Up as The Urban Griot some years back in 2002.Yeah a rap album!!!

I almost asked him to give us a freestyle over the phone, but I didn’t want to put him a famous author on the spot. I mean, it was a dozen years ago. I could only imagine how many new words and poems he had written since then. But he confessed that he would never do another rap album or music projects, with a lot of time and money lost. He called recording music an addictive process that needs the right support of the people behind you who buy your music in order to succeed. But he also stated that he liked the old school of music business where anyone had a chance to gain a loyal audience with pure skills and diversity, where in the new market, the flavor of the monthis all about social media numbers or old school artists, who already control all methods of publicity.  

I asked Tyree what he would be doing if he was not an accomplished author. Tyree said that he would have always had a business or some sort. In his college years, he even thought of owning a franchise of barbershops or even a limo transportation business. Tyree called himself a natural-born entrepreneur from the hardcore city of Philadelphia, where he learned to work hard and hustle at an early age. And instead of punching in on someone else’s clock, he started MARS Productions and published his own books at age 23 to start making his own money on his own terms. How that for a pharmacist?

But Mr. Tyree explained a catch-22 on ownership. He said, “You can own a hundred percent of your art, but if it’s not being marketed to give a return on your investment, you are just holding onto to it. So you work out a percentage deal with a company that can push it out in the market and make it mean something. But you never want to give anything away for free, that’s the catch-22 of the business/art situation. Tyree added that getting published has definitely become harder because the marketplace is now overly saturated, where publishing companies are now only willing to push those who will bring the most revenue. And Tyree said that social media is definitely the wave of the future to get notice in a growing market of attention-seekers. He said that many Americans will now go to extreme measures to get attention for anything.  “So it’s harder for an author to maintain a large number of followers, including their Twitter, Facebook and Instagram accounts.” And he definitely wants to see social media followers embrace authors more for their maturity and intelligence rather than just entertainment and drama issues.


Bar and Warfare readers, I was trying to capture everything in our conversation, It really was a (LOL) session too! Y’all know how I feel about education and being entrepreneur. Well, Omar Tyree feels the same way and he spoke about his literacy efforts with the Urban Literacy Project(ULP) which focuses on instructing students, teachers and parents to utilize a clear and repetitious method of strengthening the literacy rates, capabilities, confidence of students from levels K through 12. He said his “5 Key Components of Literacy” are: 
1. Reading to process and consume information.
2. Writing as the process of communication. 
3. Thinking as the process of focused movement, emotions, desire and intellect.
4. Visualization as the process of understanding the past, present and future through words images and ideas.   
 5.  Application as the process of executing learned knowledge.







then took an opportunity to talk with Mr. Tyree about his latest book series “The Traveler.” Tyree explained that this particular series was all about wanting readers to do more than just read the story. He wants the readers to feel as if they are IN the story. Tyree said his whole purpose is to involve his readers in the political and cultural issues of his stories. The first fullbook in “The Traveler” series takes place in the Middle East in “Welcome to Dubai and will definitely take you on a journey.  Tyree said that there are plans to for “The Traveler seriesstories set in Shanghai, Cape Town and Rio de Janiero just to name a few of the next locations.

In conclusion, I asked Mr. Tyree what advice he would give to an aspiring writer.  And one thing I can say about my conversation with Mr. Tyree is that he is straight forward andvery honest. He was just an all-out cool dude. So his advice was for writers is simply to WRITE.  Don’t be afraid to write youthoughts down.” He said to execute your thoughts with a certain fearlessness, where there is no longer a thing called “writer’s block” of internal fear. “Too many aspiring writers edit themselves before they write, therefore ‘blocking’ their own creativity. But real writers know that it’s all about bravery. So be brave and write what you really think.”

And yes, we are all still waiting on a movie deal based on some of Omar Tyree’s legendary books, including “Flyy Girl,” “Leslie” and Just Say No!”  But Tyree informed me that he and his film partner at Global Renaissance Entertainment are waiting a green light through Lions Gate Films productions and other Hollywood distributors to make it happen very shortly. He said, “It’just a process that takes patience and the understanding regarding the politics of the film industry.

So I made it through the full interview and kept my cool as a huge Omar Tyree fan. And after we were done, I realized that this will definitely go down as one of my most memorable moments I the writing business!!!
** For more information about Urban Literacy Project(ULP) and other Omar Tyree Inc. books and properties go to www.omartyree.com


Tuesday, March 25, 2014

Daddy Talk

A HOT THREESOME!

Too often we live life without thinking about consequences. There are numerous eruptions of doubts and regrets from our decision making.  

In my life, I have never been so pleased and so fulfilled in this triangle of a love affair that has me habituated.  So addicted, that I wake up pondering on these ladies that are by my side every day.  I’ll kiss one and then call the other one over for a kiss as well. I always end up with a big cheesy smile on my face like a big kid in a candy store.These two angels became my religion and “saved” me.  They are my beautiful daughters.  They have altered my life in a way that nothing in this universe has.  

Even though, there are startling statistics showing the increased absence of a black father in a child’s life, I am counteracting that with the presence of one.  My marriage did not last and a divorce was inevitable.  While going through that transition, I never involved my children in the divorce battle because I wasn’t divorcing them, I was divorcing their mom.  Never once did they disturb my life, but I integrated them in my world. What I was not prepared for was how I would become acclimated into their lives.  




Because of this trio, life enrolled me into “Mr. Mom” school and I graduated with honors.  I take a breath today proud of the moments where I had to learn how to braid, put in a relaxer in, teach them how to cook, talk to them about boys, teach them how to cook, clean, buy the first pair of heels, become a counselor when the first menstrual cycle begins, exercise, eat properly and respect their elders. I get a joy when we have Daddy-daughter dates displaying to them how a man should open a door for a woman, compliment her, and make her feel like a princess; the only thing that matters.  

My plight is my pleasure.  There are two things that I have come to identify about me.  One is that I don’t know how to halfway love.  And two, it is impossible for me NOT to love someone that looks just like me.

Life Lesson:  Only God knows the true story of the novel titled "YOU". So don't let ANYONE tell you what your next chapter should be.......especially without contacting the Author first......

Earl “EJ” Johnson

Sunday, March 23, 2014

Tracy Edmonds for Tea

Girl Power Series:

A Moment with a Mogul



 Amidst my glamorously planned life, I had the chance to sit down for tea with Ms. Tracey Edmonds. I couldn’t imagine what she’d be like or how this experience would impact me as a young woman in entertainment. I could only describe it as AMAZING. 

 Confidence radiated through her like the sun on a clear spring afternoon, brightening the already rainy day. She was like the Barbie dolls of my childhood, I cherished so dearly within my endless collection. Her suit perfectly tailored, hair strategically placed, and makeup nothing less than marvelous, I waited anxiously to ask questions and hear what wisdom she had tucked away in her Prada purse.

 Aside from the glitz that is Tracey Edmonds, she shared her life lessons, triumphs, realizations, and awe-ha moments. The time that she spent to give an insight on her life was priceless. As she explained, I jotted down notes and compiled a few nuggets of truth that have assisted in the momentum of my career and passion for my life’s work. Hopefully they can help you too!

1. Small happenings can occur to change your life’s path, don’t be afraid just go with it.

2. You’ll know when you’re in the right place in your life and career.

3. Always have more than one thing in your arsenal.

4. Everything you do give one thousand and one percent. 

5. Always remember, YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL!

a. Happiness

b. Family

c. A career

c. Money

 At 22 years of age these points all gave me reassurance. I could breath easier, dream bigger, and DO ANYTHING.

 Tracey Edmonds is only one example of Girl Power! Stay tuned for more installments to the Girl Power Series, presented by Bars and Warfare Blog.

Author Lyrric Cosby Jackson